Just before Damian got carried away rallying the troops on behalf of Fr Tim, the Holy Smoke blog ran a piece on the advice given by the US Bishops Conference which, according to the blog post, was a list of tips to "spice up your marriage"

'Holy Smoke' is my guilty pleasure. It reawakens a feeling in me that I normally only get when I go to my Gran's house, where I read her copy of the Daily Mail with the express wish of being annoyed by it. It's fun to read and even more fun to be rather freaked out by some of the people who regularly comment, though at the end of the day it's just a place to bitch about bishops and liturgical dance.
His source, which he links directly, is actually from an article called 10 Cheap Dates by 'For Your Marriage', an Initiative of the USCCB. There is no mention at all of 'spicing up' marriage and he has rather, ahem, edited the suggestions.
The 'indoor picnic' is a wet weather alternative to an outdoor one (which I would assume would make hanky panky pretty difficult), the pillow fight is one of many suggestions for a 'technology free evening'. It's also quite clear that these were not written by the bishops themselves; after all it would have been years since they had the chance to (shock horror!!) think about sex.
The sad fact is that Thompson seems to show sex and marriage in a rather sordid manner (bad dirty, not kinky dirty of course). Another post a little while ago about so called "Christian Nymphos" made him blush and caused a flurry of 'Trads' to post on his wall about how horrible the thought of a married couple enjoying sex games was. We are sexual beings so why shouldn't married couples be allowed to indulge in games to make the whole thing that little bit more romantic? I'm sure that at some point even Damian Thompson must have fantasized about sex. Now that is a scary thought :p